Showing posts with label advocacy for bipolar disorder. Show all posts
Showing posts with label advocacy for bipolar disorder. Show all posts

Monday, December 22, 2025

More Than One Name: How I Manage Life with Multiple Mental Health Diagnoses | Being Diagnosed with Multiple Disorders Series - Part 2

 

More Than One Name: How I Manage Life with Multiple Mental Health Diagnoses

Being Diagnosed with Multiple Disorders Series - Part 2

Uncharted Territory: I’m Not Just Bipolar, I’m Also…

The day I was diagnosed with Bipolar disorder was the day my life changed forever. Then came the diagnosis of General Anxiety disorder rooted in Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. In October 2024, I was also diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity disorder. With each new acronym, each new label felt heavy and oddly relieving at the same time. Finally, things began to make sense, even as they became more complex.

Being diagnosed with multiple mental health conditions can feel overwhelming, confusing, and isolating. Yet it can also become a roadmap for healing when we learn how to manage them together. The process has not been easy, but with the right support system and mental health team, I felt less alone and deeply grateful that the jigsaw puzzle of my mind was finally revealing the missing pieces.

This blog explores the emotional and practical journey of living with more than one diagnosis, and how to build a life that honors every layer of your mental health.


Multiple Diagnoses, One Body: What It Really Feels Like

Navigating overlapping symptoms can feel unbearable at times, but not knowing what is happening can be even worse. I spent years feeling mentally and emotionally paralyzed because my symptoms never fully fit my original Bipolar I diagnosis.

As a child, I experienced extreme anxiety and a noisy internal monologue that never seemed to quiet. I did not realize then that this constant mental chatter was connected to ADHD. Decades later, the medication prescribed to address it finally softened the noise, allowing me to focus and think clearly.

When one disorder masks or mimics another, especially within the bipolar cycle, it is easy to assume the symptoms are untreatable or simply part of the illness. Over time, we normalize symptoms so deeply that we stop mentioning them to our care teams. That internal monologue became so intertwined with my identity that I built my own systems to manage it, believing it could not be treated any other way.

At times, looking at my diagnosis profile feels like being reduced to a list of labels instead of being seen as a whole person. Living with multiple mental health diagnoses can feel daunting, but with effective dual diagnosis management, it is possible to find balance. I surround myself with people, both personally and medically, who support me in moments of crisis and wellness alike. While some symptoms require daily effort, a solid care plan built on self care, medication management, counseling or peer support, sleep hygiene, nutrition, and movement makes the weight more manageable.


Building a Personalized Care Plan (Because One Size Does Not Fit All)

Managing comorbid mental health conditions requires an intentional and personalized approach. One of the most important steps is working with a mental health care team to develop an integrated plan that treats the full picture rather than focusing on a single diagnosis.

My psychiatrist, Dr. A, has worked with me for three years to develop a treatment plan that reflects my individual needs. Alongside medication management, I engage in therapy that addresses my full experience. I have participated in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and more recently trauma focused care for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.

It is essential to work with providers who see beyond the loudest symptoms. Collaborative care can be the difference between long term stability and repeated relapse. You are not your symptoms and you are not your diagnosis, but you do deserve a care plan that reflects the complexity of your lived experience.


Daily Strategies to Stay Grounded with Multiple Diagnoses

Over time, I have learned that structure, routine, and healthy habits are essential when managing multiple diagnoses. The strategies I rely on are foundational to my emotional stability and mental wellness.

I build routines that allow space for both high and low energy days. On low energy days, I practice self compassion. On high energy days, I channel that energy into structured and intentional action. During my long term stay at Ontario Shores Centre for Mental Health Sciences, I learned how to track moods, triggers, and symptoms across diagnoses to identify patterns and shifts.

Because I tend to overschedule during elevated moods, I now practice gentle scheduling, daily self check ins that I call temperature checks, and a one thing at a time approach to tasks. These strategies help me remain grounded without becoming overwhelmed.

Self care for complex mental health goes beyond clinical tools. Meditation, breathing exercises, nourishing food choices, and daily movement are essential pillars of healing. Self care is not optional when managing multiple diagnoses. It is a core component of recovery and emotional regulation. I encourage anyone on this journey to speak with their care team about building self care practices that support their unique needs.


Final Thought: You Are More Than the Sum of Your Diagnoses

Receiving multiple diagnoses was not a life sentence. It was a revelation. What frightened me most was not the diagnoses themselves, but the years spent in uncertainty, fearing I would never understand my own mind.

What once felt confusing or broken now feels whole. Seeing the full picture of my mental health has given me clarity and hope. Managing my conditions together has allowed me to reclaim the agency I once lost by attributing every challenge to Bipolar disorder alone.

Bipolar once felt like a catch all explanation for symptoms I could not name. Through self advocacy, psychoeducation, and honest reflection, I discovered a unique symptom profile that extended beyond that initial diagnosis. I am more than the sum of my diagnoses, and so are you. When symptoms do not add up, seeking understanding is an act of courage. Fear lives in the unknown. Healing begins when we are willing to face the truth with compassion.

To my readers: 

What does it mean for you to be seen in all your complexity? And how can you begin showing yourself that same depth of understanding and care?

Saturday, December 13, 2025

More Than One Battle: Living with Bipolar Disorder and Substance Use Disorder | Being Diagnosed with Multiple Disorders Series - Part 1

 

More Than One Battle: Living with Bipolar Disorder and Substance Use Disorder

Being Diagnosed with Multiple Disorders Series - Part 1

Thursday, February 20, 2025

How to Advocate for Yourself in Mental Healthcare as a Woman with Bipolar Disorder

How to Advocate for Yourself in Mental Healthcare as a Woman with Bipolar Disorder

American writer and teacher Jack Kornfield said, “If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” When you are dealing with a mood disorder it can be very challenging to practice self-compassion. Sometimes, the shifts in emotions and your cognitive behaviours, from manic to depressive and all the moods that lie in between make it difficult to process experiences in a positive and productive way. In many instances individuals with Bipolar disorder have a myriad of negative experiences during periods of illness that challenges our ability to feel compassion toward ourselves leaving us feeling inadequate, uncertain and incomplete. The following article will give you an understanding of the principles of the practice of self-compassion and how they can be applied to building resilience and better mental health on your journey to wellness.      

Understanding Self-Compassion and Bipolar Disorder

Self-compassion is the practice of being kind and understanding towards yourself when you experience failure, inadequacy, or suffering. It’s a powerful tool for building resilience and improving mental health. Components of self-compassion include self-kindness, treating yourself with the same kindness you would treat a friend or family member, common humanity, recognizing that your experiences are normal and part of life and mindfulness, being present and accepting of your experiences without judgement.

Benefits of Self-compassion

  • Improve mental and physical health

  • Reduces feelings of anxiety and depression

  • Helps dispel fear of failure

  • Creates opportunity to learn from mistakes

  • Drives solutions based thinking

  • Fosters creativity

  • Leads to progress in goals set

There are challenges  to practicing self-compassion when dealing with a mental illness like Bipolar disorder. The mood swings and emotional cycles of the disorder can be rapid and severe. When dealing with high-highs (Mania or Psychosis) for instance, a person may have negative experiences that once in wellness can cause feelings of deep shame or guilt. In many cases your cognition of the negative incident may not be clear so if you do not have a full picture of your suffering, failure or inadequacy practicing self-compassion or any of the components of this becomes more complex. When dealing with low mood (Depression) combined with anxiety symptoms you may experience several cognitive distortions (inaccurate ways of thinking) which can make it extremely difficult to incorporate self-compassion when processing failure, suffering or inadequacy.

For women with Bipolar disorder emotional regulation may look like showing kindness and self-compassion toward the emotion itself rather than the experience that makes you feel the emotion. Essentially, when it comes to self-compassion the key is to allow yourself to feel your feelings even when you are not certain where they come from and why you feel that way. Having a mood disorder like Bipolar disorder is a unique experience full of emotional ups and downs therefore its important to practice mindfulness within self-compassion and remain present in your awareness of your emotions not judging them or the challenging experiences attached to your negative feelings.    

A Bipolar Woman’s Lesson on How Self-Compassion Builds Resilience and Better Mental Health 

 My experiences with mental illness and recovery have taught me that in order to practice self-compassion there are several other abilities I needed to gain. Self-reflection, self-discovery,  self-awareness and self-acceptance were important building blocks before I experienced self-compassion on my journey to resilience and ultimately better mental health. 

For years I believed my educational credentials combined with hard work in various careers would make my family proud, make me feel successful and it would prove to the world that regardless of my mental illness I was like everyone else. However the reality was different, no matter how hard I worked or how much success I gained within the first year in a position I was either terminated or had to quit due to circumstances related to my mental illness.

This cycle continued most of my adult life and recovery felt impossible. So I started to do the two things that gave me hope: daily prayers and daily letters of encouragement to myself. These two practices acted as tools of self-reflection allowing me to ask questions that only I could answer. I discovered that I still had the desire to achieve my mental health goals as well as pursue my dreams but it was going to take hard work. Through therapy, counselling and a lot of self-care I became aware of where my responsibilities were regarding my lack of progress and I was able to take accountability for my mental health.

I realized that my mental illness wasn’t stopping me from being my best self, I was. By not giving my illness the time and respect it deserved, by living in other people’s purpose instead of my own, I had done myself a disservice. I wasn’t a failure nor was I inadequate, I had misplaced my focus and energy in hopes of pleasing others. I realized every failure I experienced was a lesson and an opportunity for personal growth and a deeper understanding of my Bipolar disorder. I finally showed myself self-compassion and that helped build my resilience for all that is to come in my mental health journey.    

Practical Ways to Cultivate Self-Compassion

Along the way I have learned some practical techniques for cultivating Self-compassion. These practices can be used at any stage of your self-compassion journey. I’ve found each helpful when negative thoughts or cognitive distortion (inaccurate ways of thinking) affect positive mental health outcomes. 

  • Mindfulness techniques: Staying present without judgment of the experience or emotions attached to it.

  • Self-kindness practices: Speaking to yourself as you would a friend or family member.

  • Journaling for self-reflection: Writing prompts to challenge negative self-talk. Write letters to yourself and re-read with the goal of challenging your own perspective.

  • Building a self-compassion toolkit: Fill your toolkit with positive affirmations, grounding exercises like “earthing”, and self-care rituals like good sleep hygiene and meditation

  • Therapeutic approaches: Speak to your mental healthcare team about Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) both promote self-compassion in their practice.

The Role of Community and Support Systems

The people you surround yourself with can have an impact on your ability to feel self-compassion. It’s important to build a supportive team of people who understand your mental illness and the journey of self-compassion you are embarking on. There are resources in your community to help assist you in building the best circle of support. Below are some suggestions on where to begin:


  • Connecting with others:  Peer support is an excellent way to build self-compassion because these support workers have lived experience with mental illness and can help you feel understood.

  • Online and in-person support groups: Sitting in on a group where you and other members share common interests and experiences can be a good resource for finding your tribe.

  • Educating family and friends: Encouraging loved ones to support your journey toward self-compassion by educating them on your mental illness and the challenges you’ve experienced can give them insight on the importance of self-compassion.

Final Thoughts

Self-compassion is a difficult but rewarding practice that is important for the healing journey. When dealing with Bipolar disorder often characterized by emotional ups and downs it is essential to show compassion for your experiences but also for the emotions attached to those hard experiences as they are a part of your history. Developing abilities such as self-reflection, self-discovery, self-awareness and self-acceptance are important pillars that go hand-in-hand with practicing self-compassion. When you come to the realization that the old methods of self-loathing and self-recrimination do not speak to your current mental health and wellness goals and experiences attempting a different approach filled with self-kindness, mindfulness and self-compassion can lead you to a new way of relating to yourself and your mental illness. 

Remember, the journey to self-compassion isn’t about ignoring or forgetting the struggles of your past, rather the journey becomes possible when you give yourself grace when reflecting on your experiences and you continue to show yourself kindness when you discover both the positive and not-so-positive aspects of the emotional experiences faced on your journey to wellness.