Showing posts with label mental health awareness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mental health awareness. Show all posts

Monday, September 15, 2025

Managing the Highs: How to Navigate Hypomania with Bipolar Disorder

 

Managing the Highs: How to Navigate Hypomania with Bipolar Disorder

Riding the Wave Without Getting Pulled Under

I once signed up for three credit cards in a single day. When they arrived, I rushed to the mall and spent each balance in under three hours. At the time, every purchase felt like a need with purpose but it was hypomania.

Hypomania can feel seductive. It creates the illusion of power, freedom, and the “best version” of yourself. But if left unchecked, it can escalate into mania or even psychosis.

For me, hypomania often ends in manic-psychosis and hospitalization, with my care team working to bring me back to baseline. The truth is, during hypomania, I feel incredible, too incredible. My inhibitions vanish, boundaries dissolve, and everything moves at warp speed. Yet over time, I’ve learned to spot hypomanic episodes, manage symptoms, and stop them before real damage occurs.

This post shares grounded, compassionate strategies for managing hypomania with bipolar disorder and practical tools drawn from lived experience.


First Comes Awareness: Catching Hypomania Early

One of the most important skills in bipolar disorder management is recognizing hypomania symptoms early. This awareness comes from tracking your mood cycles with journals, sleep logs, or apps. Common cues include racing thoughts, decreased sleep, irritability, impulsivity, and excessive optimism.

For me, hypomania sometimes shows up as extreme fatigue rather than excess energy. My baseline is naturally high-energy, which makes early signs harder to detect. After back-to-back trips to the Caribbean and New York City, I unexpectedly crashed, sleeping for days. What looked like exhaustion was actually hypomania.

Even when you know your bipolar cycle, stress, travel, or disrupted sleep can shift how symptoms appear. That’s why reflection before, during, and after episodes is so valuable. Creating a personal “Red Zone Hypomania List”, a set of your own early warning signs that can help you and your support team recognize patterns and intervene sooner.


Grounding Practices That Gently Slow You Down

When hypomania enters your cycle, you can either ride the wave or learn to calm the waters. I used to let it sweep me away, but I’ve since discovered that grounding can slow the spiral.

Some practices that help me include:

  • Sensory grounding: submerging my face in cold water, using weighted blankets, or aromatherapy.

  • Movement and breath: gentle yoga, box breathing, belly breathing, or guided body scans.

  • Stillness rituals: light therapy, meditation music, or intentional solitude that often leads to restorative sleep.

These tools may not erase hypomania, but they create space for rest and regulation.


Structuring Your Day to Reduce Overstimulation

Hypomania often thrives on overstimulation. Building predictable structure and routines can make a significant difference.

  • Keep a consistent sleep schedule, even when you feel energized.

  • Schedule downtime during busy events like weddings or conferences.

  • Limit caffeine, reduce screen time, and avoid noisy environments before bed.

Structure, routine, and healthy habits are essential to maintaining emotional stability when managing bipolar disorder.


Knowing When and How to Reach Out

Even with the best coping strategies, there are times you need support. Having a trusted network including family, friends, peers, or professionals can be life-saving.

My father often spots pressured speech before I do. My Grama Judie, who helps manage my finances, notices when I hyper-spend. They give me space to self-correct, but step in if needed, following my crisis plan and communicating with my psychiatrist.

Over the years, I’ve built a bipolar crisis plan with questions my support team feels comfortable asking me, such as:

  • “When was the last time you slept?”

  • “Have you been taking your medication?”

These may sound invasive, but with trust, they become vital tools for early intervention.


Protecting Yourself from Hypomanic Impulses

Impulsivity is one of the most challenging parts of bipolar disorder. Protecting yourself means creating safeguards before hypomania hits.

Some strategies I use:

  • Safe spending rules: delay big purchases, freeze access to credit, or hand over cards to someone I trust.

  • Pause big decisions: whether about relationships, travel, or quitting a job, I place them on a 72-hour hold.

  • Create a “pause kit”: grounding tools and notes from my baseline self.

  • The buddy system: an accountability partner who isn’t afraid to tell me the truth.

These systems reduce the damage impulsivity can cause and keep me aligned with my long-term healing.


Final Thoughts: You Are Not the Choices You Make in Hypomania

Hypomanic impulses will come, but they don’t define you. Some are minor, others life-altering, yet none erase your worth. Hypomania is a symptom of bipolar disorder, not your identity.

During episodes, energy, creativity, and passion accelerate. It can feel thrilling, but also unstable. Rather than fearing hypomania, I’ve learned to treat it as a signal, an invitation to slow down, set boundaries, and lean on the practices that protect my wellness.

Guilt and shame have no place here. What matters is building awareness, showing yourself compassion, and learning to navigate the highs with wisdom and care.

To my readers: What helps you recognize when hypomania is approaching? What boundaries keep you grounded when the wave begins to rise?


Monday, August 18, 2025

Packing Peace of Mind: Creating a Mental Health Crisis Plan Before You Travel

 Packing Peace of Mind: Creating a Mental Health Crisis Plan Before You Travel

I Needed More Than a Passport—My Mind Needed a Map

Last year I took my first solo trip to Guyana in South America post-diagnosis and after twelve months of recovery. Historically, air travel has not been kind to my mental health. I often believed I was well before departure, only to spiral into hypomania that tipped into mania upon arrival, leading to hospitalization for manic-psychosis once I returned home.

It wasn’t until that trip I realized my Bipolar disorder had a predictable travel cycle—one that could be managed with preparation. After speaking with my psychiatrist, I was advised to create a Mental Health Travel Crisis Plan. I had packed every physical item twice for reassurance but hadn’t considered what my mind truly needed.

A week before departure, I began researching and building my plan. Travel can be exhilarating, but it is also emotionally, mentally, and physically exhausting. For those living with Bipolar disorder, it can be unpredictable—even dangerous—triggering Mania or depression. I came to understand that knowledge and preparation are essential travel companions.

In this blog, I’ll share how to recognize travel triggers, outline my lived experience with a travel cycle, and guide you in creating a practical, empowering mental health crisis plan.


Why Travel Can Be a Trigger—Even When It’s Excitement You’re Feeling

Travel challenges anyone’s mental health because of the disruption to daily routine, structure, and sleep patterns. For those with Bipolar disorder, the stakes are higher: the excitement of new experiences can destabilize moods and amplify symptoms. Careful planning helps minimize risks while still embracing the joy of exploration.

Common Travel Triggers for Bipolar Disorder

  • Sleep Disruption
    Travel anxiety, jet lag, and changing time zones can disrupt circadian rhythms, often worsening bipolar symptoms. Lack of restful sleep is one of the most common triggers of Mania or depression. A travel sleep schedule, naps, and rest rituals can help re-establish balance.

  • Environmental Change
    Leaving the comfort of home means leaving behind familiar routines that support stability. New environments—whether exciting or overwhelming—can destabilize mood. Building in grounding practices like mindfulness, breathing exercises, or journaling helps ease adjustment.

  • Overstimulation
    Bright city lights, bustling airports, or even serene beaches can overwhelm the senses. Overstimulation often leads to loneliness, irritability, or racing thoughts. Pausing to reset—through journaling, walking, or retreating to quiet spaces—can help restore equilibrium.

Travel often pressures us to “just enjoy” the experience. But it’s vital to honour your mental health needs first. There will always be future opportunities for travel.


Building Your Travel Crisis Plan and Checklist for Bipolar Disorder

A Mental Health Travel Crisis Plan ensures peace of mind and provides clear steps if symptoms escalate. Paired with a Travel Checklist for Bipolar Disorder, it helps you anticipate challenges before they become crises.

What to Include in Your Mental Health Travel Crisis Plan

  • Emergency Contact List: Psychiatrist, therapist, close family or friends, and substitute decision-maker.

  • Preferred Safe Spaces: Local hospitals, clinics, or wellness centres at your destination.

  • Medication List: Updated prescriptions, allergies, extra doses, and storage methods. (Consider blister packs for convenience and reassurance.)

  • Coping Tools: Grounding exercises, playlists, affirmations, journaling prompts, or fitness facilities at your accommodation.

Travel Checklist for Bipolar Disorder

Track symptoms to stay self-aware and intervene early:

  • Depressive symptoms: low mood, excessive sleep, anxiety.

  • Hypomanic symptoms: insomnia, impulsivity, racing thoughts.

  • Mania/psychosis symptoms: hallucinations, aggression, delusions.

This checklist is not meant to alarm, but to help you recognize your bipolar cycle in new environments and respond proactively.


How to Talk Mental Health and Travel: Preparing Others Without Over-explaining

Traveling with Bipolar disorder often means educating companions or hosts. On my trip to Guyana, I explained to relatives the mood shifts, highs, and lows I’d experience. Many dismissed symptoms as “jet lag,” but I knew they were part of my cycle.

Being transparent about your mental health needs—like requesting quiet accommodations or early check-in—empowers you and fosters understanding. Stigma still surrounds mental illness, but avoiding conversations to make others comfortable can leave you unsupported.

By explaining your needs with honesty, you shift the narrative: people with mental illness are capable of managing both their health and their travel itinerary.


Final Thoughts: Travel Doesn’t Have to Be Perfect to Be Worthwhile

Travel with bipolar disorder has taught me:

  • Restful sleep is essential to mental and emotional stability.

  • Mania often disguises itself as excitement and energy—until it crashes.

  • A crisis plan allows flexibility, grace, and recovery when symptoms emerge.

Some trips require immediate rest; others allow exploration before fatigue sets in. Either way, I’ve learned to see healing as part of the journey, not a setback.

Travel doesn’t need to be perfect to be worthwhile. Crisis planning isn’t expecting the worst—it’s loving yourself enough to be ready.

Closing reflection for you: What would change about the way you travel if your mental health was at the centre of your planning, not an afterthought?

Saturday, February 22, 2025

Life Lessons Series: You Have to Heal to be Whole - Onika L. Dainty

 

Life Lessons Series: You Have to Heal to Be Whole - Onika L. Dainty

Life Lesson #5

"You have to heal to be whole."

The healing process is not easy, it's hard work. It’s a decision you have to make daily to change the circumstance that is holding you back from being your best self and living the life you deserve. When we experience pain, loss or deep trauma we think that the best way to heal is to avoid the realities of our experiences and endure, bury the issues deep down inside and soldier on. However, when we choose this method over facing our pain, loss or trauma we lose a piece of ourselves and stand in the way of our own growth never becoming who we truly meant to be. We fill our subconscious with unresolved emotions and memories of traumatic experiences like a pressure cooker on the verge of explosion because the lid can’t stay on forever. 


Release is a part of the healing process. When you find healthy ways to release your pain, hurt and trauma it can begin the process of finding yourself. It’s like putting the pieces of a puzzle together until you see a whole image, a whole you. When I started my healing journey  important pieces to my puzzle were learning to love myself, have self-compassion remembering my trauma was my circumstance not who I am. I developed self-awareness in my healing journey taking the time to re-learn myself, who I am, what I wanted out of this life, my dreams and my goals for the future and reflecting and reframing the often negative narrative I had been telling myself, a narrative that had kept me stuck.


Through the support of family, friends and my mental healthcare team I have been able to take the steps I needed to to address the experiences in my life that filled me with anxiety, fear, self-loathing and self-doubt. The process was long and arduous, there were watershed tears that cleansed me of my past, there were perspectives revealed that I never considered, there was grieving the loss of the girl I was but also of the woman the trauma turned me into, there were sleepless nights and even more uncomfortable moments. The biggest challenge with the healing process is remembering it's a process and healing doesn’t happen over night. 


I realized healing is an important part of my wellness journey. It's hard work and it’s painful at times but consider if going on your healing journey is worth the destination of being whole again. 

Saturday, December 14, 2024

Understanding Depression and Anxiety in Women with Bipolar Disorder: Insights and Support

Understanding Depression and Anxiety in Women with Bipolar Disorder: Insights and Support

Living with Bipolar disorder is hard enough, but when you add Depression and Anxiety to the mix, it can feel downright overwhelming. Women with Bipolar disorder often experience these conditions at a higher rate than men, and understanding how they connect is crucial to managing them. I was diagnosed with Depression and Generalized Anxiety disorder (GAD) seven years before I even knew I had Bipolar disorder. Looking back, it makes sense how these pieces fit together.

In this blog, we’ll explore how Depression and Anxiety manifest in women with Bipolar disorder, discuss treatment options, and share some strategies that have helped me along the way. If you’re just starting your journey, check out my previous article on How to Start Managing Bipolar Disorder: A Comprehensive Guide.


Understanding Bipolar Disorder

Bipolar disorder is a mood disorder marked by extreme highs (Mania) and lows (Depression). There are different types: Bipolar I, where Mania is more severe, and Bipolar II, where depressive episodes tend to dominate. For women, these mood swings can be even more intense due to hormonal changes like menstruation or pregnancy.

I’ve found that recognizing my mood patterns helps me prepare for what's coming. It doesn’t solve the problem, but it gives me a little more control over the chaos. It’s about understanding how my brain works and finding ways to work with it, rather than against it.


The Impact of Depression in Women with Bipolar Disorder

Depression with Bipolar disorder is more than just feeling sad. It’s an all-encompassing weight that drains your energy, your motivation, and sometimes even your will to live. I’ve gone through periods of uncontrollable crying, days spent in bed, and times where I couldn’t even muster the strength to shower.

For me, depressive episodes are often triggered by major life events, like losing a loved one, or even something as simple as seasonal changes. The worst part is the isolation—feeling like no one understands. But once I started reaching out for help, things slowly began to change.


Anxiety Disorders Coexisting with Bipolar Disorder

Anxiety can show up in a variety of ways. I was diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety disorder (GAD) when I was 16 years-old, but my Anxiety started long before that. As a kid, I worried about everything—school, family, money. The racing thoughts were so loud that I would physically shake my head to try to quiet them down. It wasn’t until much later that I realized this was my Anxiety taking control.

My Anxiety often fuels my Depression, and sometimes it’s hard to tell where one ends and the other begins. Self-medicating with substances like marijuana was a mistake I made in my 20s, thinking it would help. Instead, it propelled me into my first manic-psychotic episode, leading to my diagnosis of Bipolar I disorder. Learning to manage my Anxiety has been a crucial step in managing my overall mental health.


Treatment Options for Depression and Anxiety in Bipolar Disorder

Medication can be helpful, but it’s not always straightforward. I take anti-anxiety medication as needed, but antidepressants have never worked for me. In fact, they’ve made me feel worse—suicidal even. My psychiatrist says I’m “treatment-resistant” to antidepressants, which happens with some people who have Major Depressive disorder. Finding the right medication cocktail is essential, but it can take time.

Therapy is another critical piece. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) has helped me change negative thought patterns, while Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) incorporates mindfulness practices to help manage emotions. Peer support groups have also been a safe space for me to share my struggles and connect with others who understand.


Lifestyle Changes and Coping Strategies

Managing Bipolar disorder isn’t just about medication and therapy—it’s about how you live your life. For me, self-care means prioritizing my physical and mental health. Eating well, getting enough sleep, and exercising regularly have become non-negotiable parts of my routine.

Mindfulness has also played a huge role in reducing my anxiety. Breathing exercises, yoga, and meditation help me stay grounded when my mind starts to race. It’s taken time, but I’ve learned that building a strong support network and finding community resources has been life-changing.


Advocacy and Resources

Advocating for myself didn’t come naturally. In the beginning, I was shuffled around in the mental health system, too scared to speak up. I didn’t feel like anyone would listen to the “Bipolar girl.” But once I started educating myself about my condition, I gained the confidence to speak up and demand the care I deserved.

As women, we often struggle to voice our needs. But finding your voice is key to navigating the healthcare system and getting the support you need. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, and when you can’t, rely on your support team to advocate for you. There are more resources available today than ever before—spaces where we can move beyond the stigma and have real conversations about mental health.


Final Thoughts

Depression and Anxiety are tough enough on their own, but when combined with Bipolar disorder, they can feel impossible to manage. Understanding the connection between these conditions is the first step in regaining control. With the right treatment plan, lifestyle changes, and support system, you can find balance in your life.

If you or someone you know is struggling with Depression, Anxiety, or Bipolar disorder, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. Together, we can foster resilience and create a path toward mental wellness. Let’s keep having conversations that take us beyond the stigma of mental illness. For more insights on managing bipolar disorder, check out my pillar post How to Start Managing Bipolar Disorder: A Comprehensive Guide.


Starting Next Week

A Bipolar Woman’s Self-Reflection on Fear is a series of entries that will allow you a window into my past and insight on my present and the lessons I’ve learned over the years on how to manage my depression and anxiety. The 4-part series begins on December 16-21, 2024 and is a reflection of my experiences with fear and the steps I took to overcome it. Lets continue to have conversations that take us beyond the stigma to a place where fear no longer exists.

Thursday, November 28, 2024

Positive and Negative Self-Talk: The Female Bipolar Experience

Positive and Negative Self-Talk: The Female Bipolar Experience

By Onika Dainty

Did you know that approximately 1 in 5 women experience Bipolar disorder during their lifetime? For many, the internal dialogue—both positive and negative—plays a crucial role in managing this condition. Self-talk can be a powerful tool, shaping emotions, decisions, and overall mental health. In this article, we’ll delve into the complex dynamics of self-talk in women living with Bipolar disorder. From navigating mood swings to building resilience, understanding this internal dialogue is essential for fostering a healthier mindset. Let’s explore how positive self-talk can empower women, while negative self-talk can hinder their journey.

Understanding Bipolar Disorder in Women

Bipolar disorder is a complex mental health condition that manifests in various ways, especially in women. Women often experience distinct patterns in their symptoms, influenced by hormonal changes that can exacerbate mood instability. These fluctuations can complicate the already challenging landscape of Bipolar disorder. Understanding these nuances is essential for tailoring effective coping strategies.

The Impact of Hormones

For many women, the menstrual cycle can significantly affect mood stability. The premenstrual phase, for instance, may heighten emotional sensitivity, triggering depressive or manic episodes. It's crucial to recognize how these hormonal shifts intertwine with our experiences of Bipolar disorder. Knowing this can empower women to anticipate and manage their moods more effectively.

Gender Differences

Research shows that women may experience different symptom profiles than men. While men often exhibit more manic episodes, women might encounter a higher frequency of depressive episodes. This difference emphasizes the need for gender-specific approaches to treatment and self-care strategies.

The Role of Self-Talk in Mental Health

Self-talk—the internal dialogue we engage in—plays a pivotal role in shaping our mental health. It can be both a powerful ally and a daunting adversary. Understanding the significance of self-talk is crucial for managing Bipolar disorder effectively.

What is Self-Talk?

Self-talk refers to the thoughts and narratives we construct about ourselves and our experiences. It can influence our emotions, behaviours, and ultimately, our self-esteem. In the context of Bipolar disorder, self-talk can become distorted during highs and lows, leading to either an inflated sense of self-worth or debilitating self-doubt.

The Connection to Self-Esteem

Low self-esteem is a common challenge for those living with Bipolar disorder. Negative self-talk can further erode our sense of worth, making it harder to navigate daily life. By cultivating positive self-talk, we can build a stronger foundation for emotional resilience and mental well-being.

Positive Self-Talk: A Catalyst for Empowerment

Cultivating positive self-talk can be a transformative experience. It not only enhances self-esteem but also fosters resilience in the face of challenges. Here are some strategies I have found beneficial.

Strategies for Cultivation

One effective method for nurturing positive self-talk is through the use of affirmations. Personally, I rely on the I AM app, which sends me daily affirmations that resonate deeply with me. For instance, I often repeat phrases like "I am fabulous all by myself" to reinforce my self-worth. It’s remarkable how a simple shift in our internal dialogue can uplift our spirits.

Real-Life Transformations

Many women have shared how changing their self-talk has positively impacted their lives. From combating anxiety to enhancing relationships, the power of positive affirmations cannot be overstated. By focusing on our strengths and capabilities, we can reclaim control over our narrative.

The Role of Mindfulness

Mindfulness practices have also played a significant role in my journey. By incorporating mindfulness techniques into my daily routine, I can better manage my thoughts and feelings. Meditation and breathing exercises help ground me, allowing me to cultivate a more balanced mindset.

Negative Self-Talk: Challenges and Consequences

While positive self-talk is vital, it’s essential to address the challenges posed by negative self-talk. This aspect of our internal dialogue can be insidious, often creeping in unnoticed.

Patterns of Negativity

Women with Bipolar disorder frequently experience negative thinking patterns, especially during depressive episodes. I often find myself caught in cycles of self-doubt, which can manifest physically through headaches or fatigue. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward breaking free from their grip.

The Impact on Mood

Negative self-talk can significantly impact our overall mental health. When I allow my mind to spiral into self-criticism, it often leads to worsening depressive symptoms. Conversely, during manic episodes, I may experience grandiose thoughts that feel empowering but are rooted in unrealistic expectations.

Challenging Negative Thoughts

To combat negative self-talk, I’ve learned to question my thoughts. For example, if I find myself spiralling, I take a moment to ask, "Is this thought based in reality?" Engaging in cognitive-behavioural techniques has been instrumental in reshaping my internal dialogue.

Coping Strategies for Managing Self-Talk

Understanding and managing self-talk is a continuous process. Here are some coping strategies that have helped me navigate my Bipolar disorder.

Techniques for Awareness

Fostering awareness of our self-talk patterns is crucial. Journaling has been a powerful tool in my journey. By documenting my thoughts and feelings, I can identify trends and triggers in my self-talk. This practice has allowed me to confront negative narratives head-on.

Cognitive-Behavioural Approaches

Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT) has provided me with valuable skills to reshape my self-dialogue. One particularly effective technique is exposure therapy, where I face my fears and worries instead of avoiding them. This approach helps demystify my negative thoughts, making them less daunting.

The Role of Therapy and Support Groups

Therapy and peer support groups have been invaluable in my recovery journey. Sharing experiences with others facing similar challenges fosters a sense of community and understanding. These support systems remind us that we are not alone, and there’s strength in shared experiences.

Real-Life Stories: Women’s Experiences with Self-Talk

The narratives of other women living with Bipolar disorder can be incredibly empowering. Their stories illustrate the profound impact of self-talk on recovery and self-acceptance.

Managing Self-Talk During Episodes

Many women have shared how they navigate self-talk during both manic and depressive episodes. Their insights highlight the importance of self-compassion and forgiveness in the healing process. I’ve found that embracing my journey—highs and lows—has fostered a deeper sense of self-acceptance.

Insights into Recovery

The journey to recovery is unique for everyone. Women often recount how embracing positive self-talk has played a significant role in their healing journeys. As we share our stories, we build a supportive community that emphasizes the importance of understanding and empathy.

Final Thoughts

The journey through Bipolar disorder is deeply personal, shaped by both internal and external factors. Understanding the impact of self-talk—whether uplifting or detrimental—can empower women to take control of their mental health. By fostering positive self-talk and addressing negative patterns, we can navigate the challenges of Bipolar disorder with resilience. Remember, it’s never too late to reshape your narrative. Embrace the power of your words and start your journey toward a more positive mindset today.


This post also ties back to my blog, How to Start Managing Bipolar Disorder: A Comprehensive Guide, where you can find additional resources and insights. Additionally, for more practical tips and tools, consider checking out Best Tools and Resources for Managing Bipolar Disorder in 2024.