Showing posts with label self-care for Bipolar. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-care for Bipolar. Show all posts

Thursday, April 17, 2025

Navigating the Challenges of Aging with Bipolar Disorder: Women’s Insights

Navigating the Challenges of Aging with Bipolar Disorder: Women’s Insights

Aging can be a difficult journey for many, but for women living with Bipolar disorder, the challenges are often compounded. As we get older, mental health needs evolve, and women with Bipolar disorder may experience shifting symptoms, treatment adjustments, and unique life transitions. Did you know that the onset of age-related changes can impact how Bipolar disorder manifests in older women? From mood fluctuations to length and frequency of episodes, women may experience a myriad of changes related to their Bipolar disorder cycle as they age. In this article, I will explore these insights, including my own experiences with aging while attempting to manage my mood disorder and provide practical strategies for navigating aging with Bipolar disorder.


Understanding Bipolar Disorder in Aging Women

Aging with Bipolar disorder can significantly impact women’s mental health, oftentimes leading to more depressive episodes, increased rapid cycling and mixed episodes and a higher likelihood of co-occurring disorders like anxiety or substance use disorder. As women with Bipolar disorder age they may experience a shift in their symptoms from hypomanic and manic episodes to more frequent and longer depressive episodes, and a possible increase in the number of mood episodes especially around perimenopause. 

Perimenopause and Bipolar Disorder 

Perimenopause is the transitional period leading up to menopause, characterized by fluctuating hormone levels and changes in menstrual cycles, potentially causing symptoms like hot flashes, irregular periods, and mood changes. Perimenopause has been linked to a higher risk of developing Bipolar disorder or experiencing the exacerbation of existing symptoms related to the mood disorder due to the hormonal shifts that occur specifically the decline in estrogen. For women with pre-existing Bipolar disorder perimenopause can lead to more intense and frequent mood episodes.

Depressive Episodes and Aging

As women with Bipolar disorder age there is a shift toward more depressive episodes and fewer manic episodes however these depressive episodes may be more prolonged. Some research has shown with the passage of decades in the Bipolar disorder illness there is an increase in the predominance of depressive symptoms including lowered motivation, changes in sleep patterns and appetite changes. Some women may also experience cognitive issues as they age in this illness. There is also the possibility that symptoms become resistant to medications that worked previously. If you are noticing any of these changes in your Bipolar disorder illness it's important to consult your medical team for support during this time of transition.    

Understanding Your Needs

Aging with Bipolar disorder is a part of the process that is sometimes overlooked. Just like aging is different for men as for women, transitioning from decade to decade with a severe mental illness will also look different. As women there is more to consider such as perimenopause, menopause, mood fluctuations due to hormonal shifts and how the illness of itself ages with you. It’s important to know your needs when dealing with mental illness and be aware of the changes in your cycle. Relying on your past knowledge of Bipolar disorder can help you understand who you were in your illness rather than where your mood disorder is going as you age and what your unique needs are as you transition.    

Emotional and Psychological Impact of Aging with Bipolar Disorder: A Woman’s Insight

When I was in my 20s and 30s dealing with my illness my focus was on medication and symptom management. Because I deal with Bipolar I disorder, I have always focused on the emergence of manic symptoms as my baseline leans toward hypomania. I’m now in my 40’s and I have started to experience several depressive episodes, though temporary in nature they surprised me. My lack of understanding of what I need psychologically and physiologically in this next phase of my Bipolar disorder journey has led me to start doing my research on what this mood disorder looks like in this season of my life. 

I recently went to see my OBGYN regarding irregularities in my menstrual cycle. In my 30s I was advised due to my medication regime I was experiencing fluctuations in my cycle and after a few months my period stopped completely. A week or so before my 40th birthday my cycle returned but it was irregular and caused concerns. For the past two years though, I have felt almost normal with the return of my cycle. I have also experienced emotional and psychological ups and downs including rapid cycle manic episodes and major depressive episodes. My OBGYN said the irregular cycle is due to my age and because he is not an expert in mental health he was unable to address the psychological changes that were occurring. 

It was an older friend in her 50s that mentioned I could be experiencing perimenopause, the transitional period leading to menopause. So, I began to do my research and discovered the emotional and psychological complexities of Bipolar disorder can become more challenging during this transitional period as well as during menopause. It is well known that Bipolar disorder is derived from chemical imbalances so when women age there are fluctuations in body chemistry that affect the way mood episodes occur. For example, I find myself crying more often and experiencing days when I’m unable to get out of bed. My energy is high one minute and low the next. Recently, I went on vacation and experienced a two day manic episode, one of the shortest I’ve ever had which was brought on by lack of sleep. I have also experienced moments of visual hallucination in the past few months. 

After speaking with my psychiatrist, he advised that we shorten the time between our sessions and that I continue to monitor these fluctuations in mood. He also ordered a full blood work-up to determine whether or not there needs to be adjustments made to my treatment plan. He recommended that if unexplainable mood episodes occur to contact him right away to schedule an appointment. I have been fortunate to work with a healthcare provider that listens to my concerns, keeps an open mind and provides proactive treatment solutions. 

Bipolar disorder is a continuous rollercoaster of emotional and psychological challenges but managing your symptoms is key especially as we age. Oftentimes when you feel you have a handle on this illness life will throw you a curve ball and everything feels brand new again. It's important to remember that you have the strength and resilience to manage your mood disorder regardless of the challenges that come your way. Through self-care, support, psychoeducation, medical management and self-compassion aging with Bipolar disorder will become a phase in life you conquer rather than one that defeats you. If you are currently dealing with symptoms of aging with Bipolar disorder consult your healthcare professional for information on how you can proactively manage these new challenges.       

Medication and Treatment Adjustments for Older Women with Bipolar Disorder


When you are aging and dealing with a mental illness like Bipolar disorder it's important to remember that the illness changes as you change, psychologically, physically and emotionally therefore medication and treatment adjustments may need to be made. If you are noticing a difference in medication effectiveness or treatment strategies contact your healthcare provider to discuss adjustments that can help you continue to manage your mental illness effectively. For example, there are several medications in the categories of mood stabilizers, anti-psychotics or anticonvulsants that may currently be in your medication regime that require careful monitoring to mitigate side effects or toxicity. In other words, the medications that previously worked to manage your symptoms may need readjustment in dosage or frequency as you age to remain effective. 


Lifestyle changes should also be considered to promote mental health, physical health and to avoid developing other health concerns like diabetes, high cholesterol and blood sugar or blood pressure issues from arising and creating further health challenges. A healthy lifestyle, including regular exercise, a balanced diet and adequate sleep can play a significant role in managing Bipolar disorder especially as one ages. Also seeking the counsel of a therapist, groups or peer support can prove valuable as they have knowledge and understanding of the challenges you may face during this transitional phase.


Whichever route you choose as you grow and change in your Bipolar disorder journey it's important to remember there are supports in your community and on your team to assist you in understanding how to navigate the new path of aging and managing Bipolar disorder. The complexities of managing a severe mood disorder along with the process of aging with your illness will have its challenges but with time, research, support and continued resilience you can overcome the physical, psychological and emotional trials that often come with aging and Bipolar disorder.        

Practical Strategies for Coping with Aging and Bipolar Disorder

Coping with aging and Bipolar disorder can be challenging. Below are some practical strategies for maintaining a balanced lifestyle while dealing with this new transition and managing your mood disorder.

Establish and Maintain Structure, Routine and Good Habits

  • Sleep Hygiene: Aim for a consistent sleep schedule, wake-up and go to bed at the same time daily even on weekends as disturbances in sleep can trigger mood swings.

  • Structured Daily Activities: Incorporate a daily routine of activities such as exercise, regular meals and social activities like groups or meeting with friends.

  • Medication Management: Take your medication daily and/or as prescribed and discuss side effects or concerns with your healthcare provider as issues arise. 

Physical and Mental Health

  • Nutrition: Limit processed foods and incorporate a balanced diet rich in vegetables, fruits and whole grains. Instead of take-out food consider cooking meals daily based on your budget.  

  • Exercise: Engage in physical activities you enjoy like hiking, cardio workouts, daily walking or yoga. Exercising releases endorphins and dopamine, the feel good chemicals that can combat feelings of stress or depression. 

  • Stress Management: Incorporate relaxation practices like medication, breathing exercises or grounding in the morning or before bedtime to release stress. 

  • Mental Stimulation: Engage in activities that stimulate the brain like reading, puzzles or learning a new skill such as refinishing furniture or crocheting. 

Build a Strong Support System

  • Connect with Others: Build and maintain relationships with family, friends and support groups who can support you during difficult times.

  • Professional Support: Seek the help of professionals such as psychologists, counselors or psychiatrists who can address mood fluctuations and help you develop coping skills.

  • Self-Advocacy: Communicate your needs to your healthcare team and support network. Openly share your experiences to find circles of support from like-minded individuals.  

More Strategies

  • Address Age-Related Changes: Monitor potential age-related changes in your emotional and psychological cycle to address with your healthcare providers. 

  • Manage Chronic Conditions: If you have any other chronic conditions such as diabetes or blood pressure concerns, work with your healthcare team to manage them effectively. 

  • Stay Active and Engaged: Continue to do activities that bring you joy and fill your life with purpose. 

  • Memory Aids: Use tools like calendars, to-do lists, daily planners, reminders and alarms to help keep track of medications and appointments. 


Final Thoughts

Aging with Bipolar disorder presents unique challenges, but with the right strategies, support, and self-awareness, women can navigate this journey with confidence. From understanding how symptoms change over time to adjusting treatment plans and nurturing relationships, the key is to remain proactive and practice self-compassion. When you grow and change so will your Bipolar disorder and how you manage your symptoms. Aging has never been an easy process with everyday, year or decade that passes so does the emotional and psychological needs of women. Remember Bipolar disorder is a lifelong  and complex condition. How you handle the challenges and pitfalls of this complicated mood disorder is up to you. Through psychoeducation and vigilant observation of your changing Bipolar cycle it's possible to maintain control of your journey to wellness especially during the aging process.   

If you or a loved one are facing aging with Bipolar disorder, it’s essential to seek out professional guidance, stay connected with supportive networks, and develop practical coping mechanisms. Remember every day is an opportunity to do something you’ve never done before, so today embrace the process of aging with Bipolar disorder and prioritize your mental health  and wellness every step of the way.


Tuesday, October 22, 2024

Daily Routines That Help Me Manage My Bipolar Disorder


Daily Routines That Help Me Manage My Bipolar Disorder

By Onika Dainty

Living with Bipolar disorder can feel like a rollercoaster ride, with its highs and lows often dictating daily life. However, establishing a consistent daily routine has been life-changing for me. Studies show that structure can help mitigate mood swings, making routines essential for managing this condition. In this article, I’ll share the daily practices that have supported my journey, offering insights that may resonate with others navigating similar challenges.


The Importance of Routine in Managing Bipolar Disorder

Establishing a routine has played a crucial role in my mental health journey. The predictability of daily activities helps create a sense of stability, allowing me to better navigate the emotional highs and lows of Bipolar disorder. Research supports the idea that having a structured routine can improve mood regulation and reduce anxiety, leading to greater overall well-being. This structure serves as a safety net during turbulent times, reminding me of the importance of self-care and consistency.

My Daily Routine: A Personal Account

Morning Rituals to Start the Day Right


I wake up every day at the same time—5:00 AM—often before my alarm goes off at 5:30 AM. This early start sets a positive tone for my day. After waking, I take a moment to pray and meditate, grounding myself before the busyness of the day begins. Following this, I take a refreshing shower and get dressed, which helps signal to my mind that it’s time to start the day.

By around 6:00 AM, I prepare and enjoy breakfast, fueling my body for the tasks ahead. I usually opt for something nutritious, such as porridge or eggs, which provides me with sustained energy. After breakfast, I go for a walk, allowing the fresh air to invigorate my mind and body. This combination of prayer, meditation, and exercise is vital in promoting a positive mindset.

By 7:00 AM, I sit down to make a manageable to-do list for the day. I find that keeping my tasks realistic is essential; if my list is too long, I can sense that I might be entering a manic phase. Keeping this self-awareness is crucial for my mental health management.

Work and Productivity Routines


Once I’ve outlined my tasks, I dive into my workday. I focus on what I can realistically achieve, which helps prevent me from feeling overwhelmed. I try to incorporate breaks throughout my day, allowing my mind to recharge. During lunch, which I typically have between 12:00 and 1:00 PM, I step away from my work to nourish my body and reset my mind.

After lunch, I return to my tasks with renewed focus. I find that maintaining this structure—knowing when to work and when to take breaks—supports my productivity and keeps my mood stable.

Evening Wind-Down Practices

As my workday winds down, I prioritize creating a calm environment. Dinner is typically at 7:00 PM, and afterward, I limit screen time. Instead of scrolling through social media or watching TV, I engage in rest and relaxation activities. Listening to music is a favorite pastime of mine; I often gravitate towards early Drake and jazz. If you read my blog How To Start Managing Bipolar Disorder: A Comprehensive Guide, you’ll know how much these sounds soothe me and help me unwind after a long day.

Self-Care and Wellness Strategies

Self-care is a significant aspect of my routine. After dinner, I often find myself reflecting on my day and assessing my emotional state. Journaling is another practice I engage in; it allows me to process my thoughts and feelings, contributing to my overall mental well-being.

One of the most critical components of my self-care routine is sleep hygiene. I aim to be in bed by 9:30 PM, taking my medications at 8:30 PM to ensure I’m settled and ready for rest. Quality sleep is vital for mood stabilization, and I strive to create an environment that promotes restful sleep. Did you know that sleeping in a North to South direction promotes better quality of sleep than the East to West direction? When I discovered this fact I changed the direction of my bed and I have experienced vast improvements in my sleep.

 

Flexibility and Adaptability in Routines


While routines are essential, I recognize the need for flexibility. During particularly challenging days, whether due to depressive or manic episodes, I adjust my routine accordingly. Sometimes, I need to allow myself grace and understand that it’s okay if my day doesn’t go as planned. This flexibility is key to self-compassion and maintaining a healthy mindset.

Final Thoughts


Creating a routine tailored to my needs has significantly improved my ability to manage Bipolar disorder. While it’s essential to have structure, it’s equally important to be flexible and forgiving with myself. If you’re struggling with similar challenges, consider incorporating some of these routines into your daily life. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey, and every small step can lead to a greater sense of stability.

By sharing my daily practices, I hope to provide encouragement and inspiration to others navigating the complexities of Bipolar disorder. Embracing a structured routine, while remaining adaptable, has been a crucial part of my journey toward mental wellness. I have learned a lot about building healthy habits through structured routines and although it can be challenging maintaining these practices during periods of unwellness, I alway return to them to help find my way back to myself in my recovery.

Saturday, October 12, 2024

Balancing Medications and Self-care: Insights from Consumer Survivors with Bipolar

Balancing Medications and Self-care: Insights from Consumer Survivors with Bipolar

By Onika Dainty

Living with Bipolar I disorder means navigating a complex world of medications, self-care practices, and support networks. Each element plays a vital role in managing the condition, and the right combination often takes time to discover. If I could speak to my younger self, the 16-year-old girl starting to feel the weight of Anxiety and Depression, I’d tell her that it’s okay to be scared—but she’s not alone.


This blog is for anyone dealing with Bipolar I disorder—young girls, women, parents, and even teachers who are witnessing mental health struggles in those around them. I’ve walked this road for over two decades, and I want to share my experiences, my mistakes, and the insights I’ve gained. Above all, I want to offer hope. With the right medication, self-care, and support system, Bipolar I disorder can be managed.

1. Understanding the Role of Medications in Bipolar I Disorder

Medication is often the first line of defense for managing Bipolar I disorder. When I was diagnosed, I didn’t fully grasp how critical medication would become in my life. There’s a misconception that taking a pill will immediately solve everything, but the reality is far more complex.


Finding the right combination of medications can take weeks, months, or even years. For me, it has been an ongoing journey. I’ve been on different mood stabilizers and antipsychotics, and not every medication has worked. Sometimes the side effects outweighed the benefits. But with patience and open communication with my psychiatrist, I’ve been able to find a regimen that stabilizes my moods and keeps my symptoms in check.


Currently, my medication includes mood stabilizers in pill form and an antipsychotic administered as a monthly injection. This "drug cocktail" works for me now, but I know it’s always subject to change. Medication is not a one-size-fits-all solution, and it’s essential to work with healthcare providers to tailor treatment to your needs.


For anyone navigating this process, I encourage you to stay patient and keep an open dialogue with your psychiatrist and your pharmacist about what’s working and what isn’t. It’s a trial-and-error process, but with time, you can find the right balance.


If you want to explore more about starting your medication journey, check out my previous post How to Start Managing Bipolar Disorder: A Comprehensive Guide.

2. Self-medicating: A Path I Wish I Hadn’t Taken

When I was 21, I thought I found an easier solution to my struggles—marijuana. At the time, I believed it was solving my problems. It eased my anxiety, slowed my racing thoughts, and seemed to offer the escape I needed. But in reality, all I was doing was running from the root causes of my mental health issues. What I failed to realize was marijuana acts as a mood destabilizer and is detrimental to people with serious mood disorders like Bipolar.


For a while, it felt like marijuana was helping. But by 27, I had turned to cocaine as my new drug of choice. Cocaine gave me a temporary sense of control—helping with insomnia, increasing focus, and quieting the constant chatter in my mind. For a time, I convinced myself that it was a good thing.


It wasn’t. Cocaine became a gateway to a downward spiral, and I soon found myself in my 8th psychotic episode, landing in Lakeridge Health Oshawa. That moment was a wake-up call. Self-medicating had only made things worse, and I realized that I needed to rely on professional help, not substances.


Today, I’m 9 months sober from marijuana and 22 months sober from cocaine, and I can see clearly how self-medicating only pushed me further away from healing. If you’re tempted to use substances to cope with your mental health, I urge you to reconsider. Working with a psychiatrist to find the right medications is a much safer and more effective approach.

3. Self-care as a Daily Practice: More than Just a Buzzword

Medication is essential, but it’s not enough on its own. Self-care is just as critical to managing Bipolar I disorder, and it’s something that needs to be practiced daily. When I talk about self-care, I don’t mean bubble baths and spa days (though those can be nice). Self-care is about maintaining your mental and emotional well-being. It’s about making time for yourself, recognizing your limits, and honoring what your mind and body need.


For me, journaling has always been a key part of my self-care. I’ve been writing poetry since I was a child, and putting my thoughts on paper helps me process my emotions in a way that feels safe and constructive. It’s a tool that allows me to reflect and make sense of my experiences. I can look back to where I was and take pride in where I am today.


Self-care looks different for everyone. Whether it’s meditation, spending time in nature, or simply taking a moment to breathe, it’s about finding what works for you and sticking to it. Taking care of yourself is not a luxury; it’s a necessity when living with Bipolar I disorder.

4. The Intersection of Medications and Self-care

Medications and self-care go hand in hand. Medication helps stabilize my moods and manage my symptoms, but self-care allows me to maintain balance. When I’m consistent with both, I’m in the best place to manage Bipolar I disorder.


However, it’s important to understand that medication can have side effects, and that’s where self-care becomes even more vital. For instance, certain medications might make you feel sluggish or less motivated. On days when I’m feeling the side effects of my medication, I rely on self-care practices to help me cope. Whether it’s journaling, talking to a close friend, or taking a walk, these small acts help me navigate the tougher days.


If you’re looking for practical tools to combine medication and self-care, you might find my previous post Best Tools and Resources for Managing Bipolar Disorder in 2024 helpful.

5. Practical Tips from Bipolar Survivors: Real-World Experiences

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned from living with Bipolar I disorder is that healing is not linear. There will be highs and lows, successes and setbacks. The key is persistence. Here are a few practical tips I’ve picked up along the way:


  • Stay patient with your treatment: Finding the right medication combination takes time. It can be frustrating, but it’s important to stick with it and communicate openly with your psychiatrist.

  • Track your moods: Keeping a mood journal has been incredibly helpful for me. It allows me to see patterns and identify triggers. It also gives my healthcare team valuable insights into how I’m doing. You get mood tracker templates online or from your psychiatrist.

  • Build a solid support system: Whether it’s family, friends, or a peer support group, having people who understand what you’re going through can make all the difference.

  • Make self-care a priority: Don’t wait until you’re burnt out to take care of yourself. Practice self-care daily, and listen to your body when it’s telling you to rest.

Building Your Support Network: Therapy, Family, and Friends

A strong support network is crucial in managing Bipolar I disorder. In my experience, having a combination of professional therapy, family support, and friendships has been life-changing. My therapist helps me process emotions and develop strategies for coping, while my family provides a stable foundation. Friends who understand my condition—especially those who have gone through similar experiences—are invaluable for emotional support.


Therapy is an important part of this network. Working with a mental health professional allows you to dive deeper into the emotional and psychological aspects of Bipolar I disorder. For me, therapy has been a safe space where I can unpack my thoughts and feelings without judgment.


Family and friends are also key, though it’s important to recognize that not everyone will understand what you’re going through. It can be helpful to educate those close to you about your condition, so they know how to support you. Surround yourself with people who uplift and encourage you, rather than those who bring negativity or judgment.

Final Thoughts

Managing Bipolar I disorder is a lifelong process, one that requires balancing medications, self-care, and a strong support network. I’ve made my share of mistakes—like turning to substances to cope—but I’ve learned that true healing comes from working closely with professionals, finding the right medications, and taking care of myself daily. On my journey to wellness self-compassion has also been very important.


If you’re struggling with Bipolar I disorder, please know that you’re not alone. It may take time to find what works for you, but with the right combination of treatments and support, you can live a fulfilling, balanced life. Keep going, keep advocating for yourself, and never hesitate to ask for help when you need it.


For more information on managing Bipolar I disorder, don’t forget to check out my previous post How to Start Managing Bipolar Disorder: A Comprehensive Guide. And if you’re looking for additional tools and resources to help you on your journey, you might also find Best Tools and Resources for Managing Bipolar Disorder in 2024 helpful.