Thursday, August 21, 2025

Staying Grounded on the Go: A Self-Care Plan for Traveling with Bipolar Disorder

 

Staying Grounded on the Go: A Self-Care Plan for Traveling with Bipolar Disorder

I Took My Diagnosis With Me, Not Just My Luggage

I used to think travel meant a break from my mental health routine—that rest was optional and the thrill of adventure would keep me going. I convinced myself medication wasn’t necessary on vacation, and that the mood swings I felt abroad were caused by new environments, not the bipolar disorder I carried with me.

It took several post-travel episodes—and too many hospitalizations—to realize that real freedom comes not from escaping my structure, routine, and healthy habits, but from protecting them wherever I go.

Travel invites excitement, but for those of us living with bipolar disorder, it also carries the risk of dysregulation if we don’t safeguard our mental health. Without a plan for medication, sleep, and emotional regulation, I found that travel quickly became overwhelming instead of joyful.

This blog shares how to create a self-care plan for travel—one that centers stability, energy, and emotional wellness while leaving room for adventure.


The Purpose of a Travel Self-Care Plan

Self-care while traveling is essential. It’s tempting to believe that the trip itself is self-care—but for people managing bipolar disorder, it takes more than a ticket to care for our mental health. Travel disrupts structure, routine, and healthy habits—the very things that keep symptoms manageable.

A Travel Wellness Plan works hand in hand with a Mental Health Crisis Plan (like the one I created in Packing Peace of Mind). Together, they provide flexibility and safety while allowing you to enjoy the journey. A self-care plan doesn’t limit fun—it sustains it.


Essential Factors of a Travel Wellness Plan

When creating a bipolar self-care routine for travel, consider key factors that shape your experience:

Time Zones
Shifting time zones can disrupt circadian rhythms and trigger manic or depressive episodes. Start adjusting your sleep 1–2 weeks before departure to align with your destination’s schedule.

Length of Stay
The length and type of travel matter. A three-hour train ride affects your energy differently than a 12-hour international flight. Factor recovery time into your self-care plan.

Weather
Sudden changes in light, temperature, or pressure can destabilize mood. Increased sunlight, for example, can trigger mania. Knowing your triggers allows you to prepare with wellness strategies that balance body and mind.

Travel Self-Care Checklist

  • Medication reminders: alarms, organizers, or blister packs to manage doses across time zones.

  • Sleep hygiene: consistent schedules, eye masks, white noise, melatonin if prescribed.

  • Nutrition & hydration: fuel your body with stabilizing foods and plenty of water.

  • Emotional check-ins: journaling, mood-tracking apps, or voice notes.


Navigating Overstimulation and Energy Crashes

Travel can be overstimulating, often sparking hypomanic highs followed by energy crashes. These ups and downs don’t have to ruin your trip if you prepare.

  • Plan rest days: Build downtime into your itinerary to prevent exhaustion.

  • Bring calming tools: Music playlists, grounding stones, aromatherapy, or breathing exercises can help regulate emotions.

  • Notice early signs: If mania or depression surfaces, respond without shame. Rest when needed and lean into energy in healthy ways. Medication adherence is crucial during these shifts.


Know Your Travel Boundaries

Boundaries protect your wellness while traveling. Choose companions who respect your needs—those who understand when you say no to an outing or need quiet time alone.

Mindful travel means balancing exploration with rest. Whether wandering a bustling city or watching a sunrise on the beach, give yourself permission to enjoy your surroundings without burning out.


Final Thoughts

You Deserve to Feel Safe and Alive, No Matter Where You Go

Travel became more meaningful once I stopped pretending I could leave my diagnosis behind. I can’t pack a suitcase and ignore bipolar disorder—it travels with me, everywhere.

That means my structure, routine, and healthy habits—medication, sleep hygiene, emotional check-ins—must come too. A wellness plan isn’t about limiting joy; it’s about protecting the freedom to explore safely.

Travel is a radical act of self-trust. Some trips will go smoothly, others may test my limits, but every time I prepare with care and compassion, I know I can continue the journey.

Because whether I’m at home or halfway across the world, I deserve stability, healing, and adventure.

To my readers: What would it look like to design a trip that honours both your needs and your spirit? What self-care non-negotiables belong in your “mental health passport”?

Monday, August 18, 2025

Packing Peace of Mind: Creating a Mental Health Crisis Plan Before You Travel

 Packing Peace of Mind: Creating a Mental Health Crisis Plan Before You Travel

I Needed More Than a Passport—My Mind Needed a Map

Last year I took my first solo trip to Guyana in South America post-diagnosis and after twelve months of recovery. Historically, air travel has not been kind to my mental health. I often believed I was well before departure, only to spiral into hypomania that tipped into mania upon arrival, leading to hospitalization for manic-psychosis once I returned home.

It wasn’t until that trip I realized my Bipolar disorder had a predictable travel cycle—one that could be managed with preparation. After speaking with my psychiatrist, I was advised to create a Mental Health Travel Crisis Plan. I had packed every physical item twice for reassurance but hadn’t considered what my mind truly needed.

A week before departure, I began researching and building my plan. Travel can be exhilarating, but it is also emotionally, mentally, and physically exhausting. For those living with Bipolar disorder, it can be unpredictable—even dangerous—triggering Mania or depression. I came to understand that knowledge and preparation are essential travel companions.

In this blog, I’ll share how to recognize travel triggers, outline my lived experience with a travel cycle, and guide you in creating a practical, empowering mental health crisis plan.


Why Travel Can Be a Trigger—Even When It’s Excitement You’re Feeling

Travel challenges anyone’s mental health because of the disruption to daily routine, structure, and sleep patterns. For those with Bipolar disorder, the stakes are higher: the excitement of new experiences can destabilize moods and amplify symptoms. Careful planning helps minimize risks while still embracing the joy of exploration.

Common Travel Triggers for Bipolar Disorder

  • Sleep Disruption
    Travel anxiety, jet lag, and changing time zones can disrupt circadian rhythms, often worsening bipolar symptoms. Lack of restful sleep is one of the most common triggers of Mania or depression. A travel sleep schedule, naps, and rest rituals can help re-establish balance.

  • Environmental Change
    Leaving the comfort of home means leaving behind familiar routines that support stability. New environments—whether exciting or overwhelming—can destabilize mood. Building in grounding practices like mindfulness, breathing exercises, or journaling helps ease adjustment.

  • Overstimulation
    Bright city lights, bustling airports, or even serene beaches can overwhelm the senses. Overstimulation often leads to loneliness, irritability, or racing thoughts. Pausing to reset—through journaling, walking, or retreating to quiet spaces—can help restore equilibrium.

Travel often pressures us to “just enjoy” the experience. But it’s vital to honour your mental health needs first. There will always be future opportunities for travel.


Building Your Travel Crisis Plan and Checklist for Bipolar Disorder

A Mental Health Travel Crisis Plan ensures peace of mind and provides clear steps if symptoms escalate. Paired with a Travel Checklist for Bipolar Disorder, it helps you anticipate challenges before they become crises.

What to Include in Your Mental Health Travel Crisis Plan

  • Emergency Contact List: Psychiatrist, therapist, close family or friends, and substitute decision-maker.

  • Preferred Safe Spaces: Local hospitals, clinics, or wellness centres at your destination.

  • Medication List: Updated prescriptions, allergies, extra doses, and storage methods. (Consider blister packs for convenience and reassurance.)

  • Coping Tools: Grounding exercises, playlists, affirmations, journaling prompts, or fitness facilities at your accommodation.

Travel Checklist for Bipolar Disorder

Track symptoms to stay self-aware and intervene early:

  • Depressive symptoms: low mood, excessive sleep, anxiety.

  • Hypomanic symptoms: insomnia, impulsivity, racing thoughts.

  • Mania/psychosis symptoms: hallucinations, aggression, delusions.

This checklist is not meant to alarm, but to help you recognize your bipolar cycle in new environments and respond proactively.


How to Talk Mental Health and Travel: Preparing Others Without Over-explaining

Traveling with Bipolar disorder often means educating companions or hosts. On my trip to Guyana, I explained to relatives the mood shifts, highs, and lows I’d experience. Many dismissed symptoms as “jet lag,” but I knew they were part of my cycle.

Being transparent about your mental health needs—like requesting quiet accommodations or early check-in—empowers you and fosters understanding. Stigma still surrounds mental illness, but avoiding conversations to make others comfortable can leave you unsupported.

By explaining your needs with honesty, you shift the narrative: people with mental illness are capable of managing both their health and their travel itinerary.


Final Thoughts: Travel Doesn’t Have to Be Perfect to Be Worthwhile

Travel with bipolar disorder has taught me:

  • Restful sleep is essential to mental and emotional stability.

  • Mania often disguises itself as excitement and energy—until it crashes.

  • A crisis plan allows flexibility, grace, and recovery when symptoms emerge.

Some trips require immediate rest; others allow exploration before fatigue sets in. Either way, I’ve learned to see healing as part of the journey, not a setback.

Travel doesn’t need to be perfect to be worthwhile. Crisis planning isn’t expecting the worst—it’s loving yourself enough to be ready.

Closing reflection for you: What would change about the way you travel if your mental health was at the centre of your planning, not an afterthought?

Saturday, August 16, 2025

Life Lessons Series: The World Can't Touch Me In My Sleep – Onika L. Dainty

 

Life Lesson Series: The World Can't Touch Me In My Sleep – Onika L. Dainty

Life Lesson #13

“The World Can't Touch Me In My Sleep” – Onika L. Dainty


On an island far away from the deep darkness of life, where the sunshines bright, it touches my brown skin and makes me smile. I stay awake a long long while until sleep finally catches up with me, the world of deep darkness creeps in and I sleep, at first faintly, then deep because the world can’t touch me in my sleep. 


My mind screams loud of past transgressions, past indiscretions, past loves lost like hidden treasures, an ocean away, the bottom of blue waters I drown and float, I drown and float. My troubles for today fade in the quick sand but still pull me under in the depths of a world where I wander. Dream bittersweet dreams of life as it seems to pass me by. I sleep, I sleep for days, depression captures me so I stay underground for a little while longer for what I have always known to be true, though grey skies or blue, the world can’t touch me in my sleep. 


Surrounded by azure waters that touch a clear cloudless horizon I take a deep morning breathes as I try and try to rise but sleep pulls me back in telling me that its healing power has only just begun to repair the over-wrought, overrun, overwhelmed and overdone mind that has always been mine. A mind that worries too much, a mind that spirals out of control in a single moment then goes so slow I can’t move, though I can still think of the troubles that sink my soul in a place filled with beautiful scenery. I still must close my eyes for a time because  no matter the warmth I feel I can still feel the cold. That’s when I remember that as I lay down and slumber the world can’t touch me in my sleep. 


After days and days I rise, surprised to see a sunrise that looks different than before. My mind has healed, I can touch, I can feel the sun on my brown skin once more. On an island far away, I look to the heavens and pray saying thank-you Lord for blessing my mind with divine clarity once again. Through highs and lows, grey skies and blue, lost treasures I will remember what’s true, just close my eyes when darkness creeps in, for no matter where I go the world can’t touch me in my sleep.


Thursday, August 14, 2025

The Clock Runs Out: Facing the End of Transitional Housing with No Place to Go

 The Clock Runs Out: Facing the End of Transitional Housing with No Place to Go

Living in Limbo: Packing My Bags—Again

I remember the exact moment my caseworker told me I had 30 days left in my first transitional home. My stomach dropped. Words failed me. I’d only been there six months—though four of those were spent recovering from multiple bipolar episodes, trying to claw my way back to stability.

Questions flooded in:
Was my instability the reason? Did my mental health mean I no longer qualified? Was I headed back to the shelter system?

She explained the whole house was being evicted due to the property’s sale. They were looking for a new space, but with limited options, nothing was guaranteed. I left that conversation with no plan, no income, and no idea where I would be in a month.

Transitional housing is meant to be a bridge—but sometimes that bridge ends before you’ve reached solid ground. For those living with bipolar disorder, the timing can feel especially cruel.


The Illusion of Time: When Transitional Becomes Temporary

Many unhoused individuals hear “you have a place” and think the chaos is over. Relief floods in: no more streets, no more shelter, just rest and recovery.

But transitional housing is always temporary—three months, six months, maybe a year. You trade one uncertainty for another. For me, stability—however fleeting—was still better than the nightmare of being unhoused. I convinced myself the time wouldn’t run out.

But mental health recovery doesn’t fit neatly into housing deadlines. Healing from trauma, bipolar episodes, and instability can take years. The countdown clock only adds pressure, forcing you to “be ready” before you truly are.


The Emotional Fallout of Another Ending

Housing loss has an emotional cost—panic, shame, insecurity, and grief, much like a breakup or death. You wonder if you’re “too slow” or “not good enough,” wishing recovery could happen faster.

I thought paying rent and healing was enough. It wasn’t. I had no control over the sale, no say in my eviction, and no certainty about my future.

Being forced to leave without a plan can reignite old trauma. For those with a recent history of homelessness, like me, the fear is sharper—you know too well what chaos lies beyond that deadline.

In the unknown, hope is replaced by anxiety and darkness. Your future feels hidden, unsettled, and unsafe.


The Search: Scrambling for Stability Before the Exit

After my eviction notice, I scrambled—adding my name to waitlists, contacting rentals I couldn’t afford, facing rejection after rejection. I wasn’t well enough to work, keep up with appointments, search for low-income housing, and manage my bipolar disorder all at once.

In desperation, I even messaged the landlord, pleading to stay. His refusal—steeped in stigma—left me crushed.

The last two weeks were spent in bed, consumed by depression and fear. Would I end up back in the shelter? Hospitalized? On the street?

Days before eviction, my caseworker found another transitional space. Relief came, but so did resentment—being placed last minute made me feel more like a file than a human being.


What Support Should Look Like—And Often Doesn’t

Housing support for mental health recovery should be holistic. Transitional housing should come with wraparound services—therapy, counseling, peer mentorship, and case management.

Too often, systems are disjointed. A shelter case manager may not connect with a transitional housing case manager. Without coordinated care, healing becomes temporary, not transformative.

Trauma from mental illness, addiction, or abuse needs more than a bed. Without the right support, reintegration into the community—the very goal of transitional housing—is rarely achieved.

My success now is due to self-advocacy. Once I realized my healing depended on me, I secured the services I needed during my stay.


Final Thought: Housing Is a Human Right—Not a Privilege

In my new transitional home, I learned that housing stability isn’t simply given—it’s fought for daily. The clock always runs out, and if you’re not prepared, you can fall back into uncertainty.

For months, I lived out of boxes, afraid to unpack. Eventually, I let go of fear, embraced my temporary space, and made it my own—painting walls pink, filling shelves with books, creating comfort where I could.

Housing is a human right. In our current system, it’s too often treated as a privilege, especially for those with mental health challenges. Without safe, stable housing, it’s nearly impossible to achieve emotional stability, financial security, or lasting wellness.

To my readers: Have you ever had to leave before you were ready? What would safety and support look like if it truly supported healing?